The Moneyist: ‘She owes thousands of dollars on one credit card’: My mother spends too much money helping her family in the Caribbean. How can I get her to put herself first? No Comments Uncategorized ‘She brought me and my brother to this country two decades ago, and has since worked endlessly to provide for us.’ ‘She brought me and my brother to this country two decades ago, and has since worked endlessly to provide for us.’ Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window)