The Moneyist: My son is married to a selfish, passive-aggressive woman. How can I leave him money without her getting her hands on it?

‘My daughter-in-law never attends family events. She has an 18-year-old disabled daughter who is very friendly. I’ve treated her as though she is my flesh and blood.’

‘My daughter-in-law never attends family events. She has an 18-year-old disabled daughter who is very friendly. I’ve treated her as though she is my flesh and blood.’