The Moneyist: ‘I’d prefer the money never hits our account’: My in-laws live with my wife and me. They want to use their 401(k) to pay off our mortgage. What should we do? No Comments Uncategorized ‘I am super grateful they are willing to do this for us, but it’s still not our money.’ ‘I am super grateful they are willing to do this for us, but it’s still not our money.’ Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Click to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window)