The Key To Flirting? It’s Not About You

Illustration of two people sitting on bar stools, turned toward one another. The person on the left has a peacock tail coming off the back of their stool. The person on the right has peacock feathers framing the back of their chair. They are surrounded by sparkles and sit in front of a dark pink background.

Flirting can be scary. What if you get rejected? Reframing that mindset is key to an enjoyable flirting experience, according to experts. Their first tip: remember that it’s not about you.

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Flirting can be scary. What if you get rejected? Reframing that mindset is key to an enjoyable flirting experience, according to experts. Their first tip: remember that it’s not about you.