A new mum says she will not let her mother-in-law hold her two-month-old baby if she has had a smoke – but her husband says it ‘isn’t a big deal’, leaving the daughter-in-law in a dilemmaA new mum says she will not let her mother-in-law hold her two-month-old baby if she has had a smoke – but her husband says it ‘isn’t a big deal’, leaving the daughter-in-law in a dilemma